If Something Happened to You

    What to Do If You Were Abused by Someone in the Church

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    If you're here because something happened to you, or to someone you care about, connected to the Church of England — you don't need to know any legal terms, and you don't need to have already decided what you want to do. This page is a starting point, not a form to fill in.

    Four Things Worth Knowing

    None of these require you to do anything. They're just things that tend to help when someone is trying to work out where to start.

    You Don't Have to Decide Anything Right Now

    There's no deadline on working out how you feel. Reading this page, or talking to someone, doesn't commit you to reporting it, making a claim, or telling anyone else. You're allowed to just think about it for as long as you need.

    If You Need to Talk, Talk to Someone Who Isn't Involved

    A trusted friend, a helpline, or a counsellor — someone with no connection to the Church or the person involved. NAPAC (0808 801 0331) and MACSAS specialise in exactly this and are free and confidential.

    You Can Report It Without Starting Legal Action

    Reporting to the police, or to the Church's own safeguarding team, is a separate step from bringing a compensation claim. Many survivors do one without the other, or do them months apart, in whichever order feels right.

    Compensation Is One Option Among Several — Not an Obligation

    If and when you're ready to think about compensation, there are several routes (a civil claim, the Church's Redress Scheme, or a CICA application), and you're free to explore any, all, or none of them.

    "But What If..." — Common Worries That Don't Actually Stop You

    Most of the reasons survivors give us for not getting in touch turn out not to be barriers at all. If any of these sound familiar, it's still worth a conversation.

    "It happened a long time ago and you're not sure it still "counts""
    "The person who harmed you has since died"
    "You never reported it at the time, or told anyone at all"
    "You're not sure whether what happened meets any legal definition"
    "You feel loyalty or guilt about the Church, the parish, or the person involved"
    "You don't have any documents, letters, or records"

    Common Questions

    Whenever You're Ready, We're Here

    A first conversation is free, confidential, and doesn't commit you to anything. You set the pace.